You're Already a Being of Light — Luminous Partnerships examination

Eleven questions. Nine of eleven passes, and you can take it again as often as you like.

What does the course say is the difference between the skills acquisition frame and the capacity recognition frame?

One applies to new couples and the other to long-standing marriages and committed partnerships One is taught by therapists and the other is learned through books and private study One focuses on romantic love and the other on friendship and wider community ties One assumes you are failing and must learn; the other expands a capacity you already have
Why does the course prefer the capacity recognition frame?

It guarantees that a suitable partner will appear within a year of starting the course It bypasses shame and defensive reactivity and speaks to the part of you that already knows It is faster to teach and suits people who want quick results from a short course It removes any need for practice, reflection or journaling once the central idea is understood
How does the module view every relationship choice you have made?

As mistakes to be analysed carefully so that you never again repeat the same painful patterns As evidence of an attachment wound that must be repaired before you love again As random events that carry no particular meaning for where you are headed now As the wisest available option given your consciousness and circumstances at the time
How does the course reframe patterns you judge as self-sabotaging?

As your system's intelligent attempt to protect something precious until you were ready As character flaws that require firm discipline and steady daily effort before you can love well As habits copied from your parents that must be identified and fully erased As clear signs that you are not yet ready to enter a serious partnership
Which of these is one of the seven qualities of luminous connection named in the module?

Shared ambition, pursuing the same career goals side by side Constant agreement, never differing in view or opinion Mutual amplification, feeling more alive in each other's presence Mutual obligation, feeling bound by duty to one another
What is the purpose of the Luminous Connection Inventory exercise?

A careful list of past partners' faults and failings Evidence-based recognition of a capacity you have already demonstrated Affirmations repeated each day until you finally believe what they say A scorecard ranking each of your past relationships
While doing the inventory you think, 'those moments were flukes.' What does the course suggest?

Notice it, thank your protective system, and gently set it aside Replace those moments with newer and more impressive ones Accept the thought as accurate and stop the exercise there for now Argue firmly with the thought until it finally goes away
How does the course describe those moments of luminous connection you may call flukes?

Illusions created by early infatuation Glimpses of your natural state when conditions aligned Rare accidents that can never be repeated Gifts that came only from the other person, never from you
How does the module ask you to see a relationship where you lost yourself?

As proof that you tend to choose partners badly As a warning never to love so deeply or openly again As wasted years that you should grieve, release and then forget entirely As information about what it feels like to be off-centre, and so in it
What does the module call your relationship history as a whole?

Evidence of repeated failure to learn the same lessons A random series of chance meetings with little meaning A perfectly designed curriculum that brought you to this moment A debt you must first repay before you are free to love anyone again
What does the module say the course is not, in contrast to what it is?

Not a boot camp that breaks you down, but a playground for remembering your luminosity Not a course for couples at all, but a therapy group for healing old childhood wounds Not a playground, but a strict training programme with clear grades Not about intimate partners, but about career success and ambition