Sacred Contract Drafting — Luminous Partnerships examination

Eleven questions. Nine of eleven passes, and you can take it again as often as you like.

Why does the course call this practice a sacred contract rather than a list?

It is a legally binding agreement that both partners sign and keep It is a set of household rules that both partners must follow It is a love letter to the partnership's feeling-tone, not a list of requirements It is a checklist for screening potential dates carefully before agreeing to meet them
How does the module respond to the objection that being specific limits possibility?

Specificity focuses possibility rather than limiting it It says that specificity only matters for goals that are material It suggests being specific only about appearance It agrees and recommends staying open to anything
What does the module say 'I'm open to anything' often really communicates?

A protective resignation that doubts you can have what you want A clear preference for adventure over familiarity Genuine spiritual maturity and deep trust in life A generous and open heart that is ready to accept any partner
In what tense does the module advise writing the contract?

Future tense, such as 'we will create' Present tense, such as 'we create' and 'we explore' Conditional, such as 'we might one day come to explore' Past tense, such as 'we once created'
Which line best reflects the module's guidance on describing a future partner?

You earn a stable salary and own a home of your own When I look at you I feel seen at depths I didn't know existed You are between thirty and forty years old and single You have brown eyes, work in the technology sector and love to travel
Why does the module insist on an explicit section on sexual desire?

Because sexuality is the only part of the whole contract that truly matters Because it replaces the need for all the other sections of the letter Because partners are expected to read it aloud on the first date Vagueness leaves a powerful creative force unused and signals unreadiness
What does the contract's section on conflict describe?

A plan for avoiding difficult topics whenever they arise The consciousness and specific rituals you'll use for rupture and repair Clear rules about who wins disagreements and how often A firm promise that conflict will never happen between the two of you
In the sample rupture-repair ritual, what do partners do after three breaths together?

They leave the room separately for a while to cool down Each lists what the other did wrong Each says one thing they appreciate about the other They decide who ought to apologise first
What does the section on what you bring to the partnership demonstrate?

That preparation is unnecessary once you are clear about what you want That the right partner should meet all of your needs and fill every gap That you must hide your wounds until the relationship is well established Two already-whole beings choosing to combine, not one completing the other
What is the hybrid approach to working with a finished contract?

Keeping a copy to read regularly and burning another in release Sending it to a few close friends and then deleting it for good Posting it publicly as part of an online dating profile Reading it once carefully and then filing it away
How does the module frame the paradox at the heart of sacred contract drafting?

Maximum effort at first, followed by giving up entirely Strict control of both the timing of arrival and the form it takes Crystal-clear intention and total surrender held at the same time Waiting passively without holding any intention at all